Lady Victoria NYC https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/ The NYC Dominatrix for the Discerning Deviant Fri, 20 Dec 2024 18:06:37 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/cropped-L-4-32x32.png Lady Victoria NYC https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/ 32 32 Protected: Burning Man 2023 https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/burning_man_2023/ Tue, 12 Sep 2023 19:08:54 +0000 https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/?p=11350 There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

The post Protected: Burning Man 2023 appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>

This content is password protected. To view it please enter your password below:

The post Protected: Burning Man 2023 appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>
My Shibari Journey with Rina Trevi https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/shibari-with-rina-nyc-dominatrix/ Wed, 17 Nov 2021 18:14:40 +0000 http://ladyvictorianyc.ch/?page_id=7041 My Shibari Journey with Rina Trevi The anticipation before my journey with Rina Trevi felt exhilarating!   I was literally bouncing with excitement every time I thought about it from the moment I sent my deposit in October until the day we met in November. Rina Trevi I did not come with any specific requests…

The post My Shibari Journey with Rina Trevi appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>

My Shibari Journey

The anticipation

before my journey with

felt exhilarating!

 

I was literally bouncing

with excitement every time I thought about it

from the moment I sent my deposit in October

until the day we met in November.

Rina Trevi
image_50409985

I did not come

with any specific requests

nor expectations for the experience. 

 

I wanted to hand myself over

to an expert and take a trip to subspace.

I was craving power exchange and intensity. 

I wanted a special treat for my birthday. 

 

I relayed my interest in meditative bondage.

I shared that I have developed a taste

for the rush of endorphins

and the high that comes

with pain.

I did not come

with any specific requests

nor expectations for the experience. 

 

I wanted to hand myself over

to an expert and take a trip to subspace.

I was craving power exchange and intensity. 

I wanted a special treat for myself for my birthday.

 

I relayed my interest in meditative bondage.

I shared that I have developed a taste

for the rush of endorphins

and the high that comes

with pain.

image_50409985

Soon after we started

I was blindfolded and tied-up tight. 

A peculiar and unusual feeling came up;

 

I remembered that Rina wrote about

although, honestly, I did not actually

understand what that meant,

not for me at least.

 

Upon examination,

I found I did not feel scared.

This feeling I had avoided for years,

for fear of pain, was here to be explored.

I decided to surrender - to dive into the pain.

And, oh my...  What a high!

image_50394881
image_50440449

The waves of sensation,

the harmony of the sound bath around me

-sounds I usually hear while very comfortable-

now accompanying me to peaks of intensity

and the bliss of just being.

 

My whole being was floating on endorphins.

 

I felt a sense of triumph and

accomplishment after enduring the pain.

I felt so strong and powerful-

I could handle so much!

image_50392065

A thought came to mind:

 

 

Pain is weakness leaving the body.

 

- Lt. Gen. Puller, USMC

I was looking for an adventure.

I value my time & safety enough to hire a pro.

When I saw Rina on a February '21 podcast with

I was captivated by the passionate way

she spoke about shibari.

 

 

I had admired Rina for years prior.

As a newbie pro-Domme, I looked up to Her

as a fabulous and creative established Domina.

Her erudite writings on BDSM and kink impressed me as I grew to appreciate them.

Trust & respect are necessary for me to bottom;

someone has to have both intelligence

and experience for me to feel safe.

 

 

I am so happy I decided

to treat myself to a world-class experience!

Rina is as brilliant in conversation as she is in

writing and as warm as she is witty.  I felt safe.

Masterclass level power-exchange & pain play,

with a dip into (a favorite feeling!) something deeper that I don't yet understand ;

vulnerability and the power of surrender.

 

 

I walked away feeling powerful, courageous, and happy 🙂

Rina Trevi
image_50384385
image_50396417

This journey took place at the welcoming

A Brooklyn, N.Y. Shibari Studio

The post My Shibari Journey with Rina Trevi appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>
NYC Dominatrix Lady Victoria – DomCon LA 2021 https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/domcon-2021-los-angeles/ Mon, 30 Aug 2021 22:39:06 +0000 http://ladyvictorianyc.ch/?page_id=6637 DomCon 2021 - Los Angeles DomCon  Los Angeles 2021     DomCon is an event where lifestyle and pro kinksters gather to collaborate, educate, and play.   By day there are classes, socials, and contests. By night, kinky play parties with mischief galore; smiles and screams and laughter abound.   This was my ninth 'Con…

The post NYC Dominatrix Lady Victoria – DomCon LA 2021 appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>

DomCon 2021 - Los Angeles

DomCon 

Los Angeles

2021

 

 

DomCon is an event

where lifestyle and pro kinksters

gather to collaborate, educate, and play.

 

By day there are classes, socials, and contests.

By night, kinky play parties with mischief galore;

smiles and screams and laughter abound.

 

This was my ninth 'Con and one aspect that

stands out were the connections I made

with fellow New Yorkers.

 


 

NYC Dominatrix Mistress Shayla

owns the Chez-La Dungeon in Brooklyn;

Co-Headmistress of 7 Days of Domination

educational events.

 

I thoroughly enjoyed Our

conversations on the psychology and

philosophies of FemDom, BDSM,

fetish, & kink.

 


 

The New York Crew

It was my pleasure to organize this group photo for many of the New Yorkers.

 

 

 

In the BDSM community,

our elders are respected and valued.

Our adored Shermie organized this breakfast

for the New York crew and friends.

Thank you, Shermie!

 

 

(Those linked above are not duplicated below.)

2G-20210819-2596

Red Carpet

2021

DomCon2021_day4-210822-5018

The Mistresses Tea

 

We had just been told that, traditionally,

photos here are taken with a cup of tea in hand;

then someone said 'pinkies up!'

 

Socials are where unowned

submissives may serve - a great way to get out

there and become known to Dominas.

 

One of many DomCon


 

DomCon Los Angeles 2021

 

~ Clicking the group photo opens an enlargement ~

 

Mistress Shayla and I are in the back row.

She is in front of the right pillar of the white

archway and I am to the right.

 


 

My trusty bondage horse, Spanky, came along and was put to good use.

 

My trusty bondage horse,

Spanky,

flew out to Los Angeles with me.

 

I was delighted to see so many

newbies and couples and crossdressers

coming out to play!

 

 

I Love

setting the scene for

extraordinary experiences,

creating delicious memories

to be savored.

 


 

DomCon2021_day3-210821-4557
DomCon2021_day3-210821-4567
DomCon2021_day3-210821-4556

Special thanks to the dedicated and talented photographers who offer their services.

Follow them to see more FemDom photography.

The post NYC Dominatrix Lady Victoria – DomCon LA 2021 appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>
Protected: DommeTrips Cozumel 2019 https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/dommetrips-cozumel-2019/ https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/dommetrips-cozumel-2019/#respond Sun, 22 Dec 2019 03:17:02 +0000 http://ladyvictorianyc.ch/?p=4485 There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

The post Protected: DommeTrips Cozumel 2019 appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>

This content is password protected. To view it please enter your password below:

The post Protected: DommeTrips Cozumel 2019 appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>
https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/dommetrips-cozumel-2019/feed/ 0
NYC Dominatrix Lady Victoria – Guest of Honor – DomCon 2018 – https://ladyvictorianyc.ch/guest-of-honor-domcon-2018/ Thu, 01 Nov 2018 21:56:24 +0000 http://ladyvictorianyc.ch/?page_id=1936 It was My pleasure to attend DomCon New Orleans 2018 as Guest of Honor to receive an award for having attained   Prominence and Excellence as a Dominatrix DomCon is a bi-annual event held in Los Angeles in the spring and New Orleans in the fall.   While LA is The Big One and more of…

The post NYC Dominatrix Lady Victoria – Guest of Honor – DomCon 2018 – appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>
DomCon New Orleans

It was My pleasure to attend

DomCon New Orleans 2018 as Guest of Honor

to receive an award for having attained

 

Prominence and Excellence

as a Dominatrix

DomCon New Orleans
DomCon New Orleans
DomCon New Orleans

DomCon is a bi-annual event held in Los Angeles in the spring and New Orleans in the fall.

 

While LA is The Big One and more of our international Sisters fly in, I love NOLA for its intimacy and wild energy.

 

I find friendships grow deeper with a smaller group.

 

With the wild energy of NOLA right at our doorstep, we wind up out on the town until the wee hours-smiles and laughter abound!

DomCon New Orleans

Dominatrices and Strip Clubs go together extraordinarily well =^.^=

This year it was 'Hunk Oasis' with Mistress Leigh of Pandora's Box and several other NYC Dominas.

Without a submissive to kneel behind My chair and give Me dollars to tip, I set My stand-in bratley bear upon the stage to hold the dollars =^.^=

DomCon New Orleans
DomCon New Orleans

Goddess Phoenix has become a beloved friend and mentor.

 

A highly respected Dominatrix,

She embraces the art of being a sensual and seductive player.

 

When I was new, I had this idea that I should hide that in Myself, emulating the harsh archetypes out there.

 

Lol, thank Goddess, I met this Goddess!

 

We have spent many kink-cations together; Domme Trips Jamaica and Cozumel, Plunge Fetish Jamaica.

She enjoys traveling the world as a teacher of kink on cruise ships.  There may be news in the works... 😉

 

 

(Yes, there is a teddy bear in the bag at My feet, representing My collared pet who could not attend, bratley bear.)

Love

the way the

lights shine

on My latex...

DomCon
DomCon New Orleans

Miss Lila Sage and I first met at a New Year's Eve party in Los Angeles for 2018.

She was a lifestyle Mistress curious about the profession; we were introduced by one on My Burning Man campmates.

It was My pleasure to share what I learned. She has become a Top Dominatrix I am delighted to have Her as My Sister.

Intelligence is perhaps the quality I value most.  I have met a lot of beautiful women who cannot hold up a conversation.  Miss Lila is delightfully witty, plus kind and funny =^.^=

It was a pleasure to collaborate with Her on doubles when She had Her first tour to NYC.

Sharing interests in hypnosis we created a unique experience.  It was a hit with those we tested it out on and I look forward to further developing it in the future.

Many thanks to the

DomCon Advisory Board!

 

I am deeply grateful for the community they bring together and nurture, My chosen family with so many beautiful Sisters =^.^=

DomCon New Orleans

As one of the taller Dominas in the world, I am in the back row on the left, just to the right of Miss Lila.

Past Years

The post NYC Dominatrix Lady Victoria – Guest of Honor – DomCon 2018 – appeared first on Lady Victoria NYC.

]]>